“How do you date guys so well? so often?”
One of my friend asked me with sarcastic vibe. Yes! I’d say I’ve dated more guys than normal girls in my age whereas my friend barely even count proper relationship she had.
Too many sexy, nice guys are around world, how can I resist it?
Do not start relationship because you think this relationship will change your life. I mean.. Don’t expect much, into relationship is the new way of seeing another individual quickly and conversantly. nothing more or less.. better not expect some kind of fairy tale through seeing someone else. Romantic attachment is not a consequence but is such a processing(?) of your life. The process, is everything about “relationship” maybe plus sex..
You don’t expect Invariable to your partner, I more focus on this because this is what I was always struggle when I was in relationship.
Are you invariable? People are being changed all the time, their look, their mind so is everything. nothing is forever. I’d concentrate on those ‘changes’ like how I changed because of this relationship.. etc but not other’s changes.. I wish I could explain better but anyway
I don’t look for the ‘perfect match’ but I try my best to find
through the relationship. … that’s it.
We woman, often look for our boyfriend by way of elimination. Our unnecessarily sensitive ears and eyes quickly catch guys’ insufficiencies, faults, and demerits.
= weak point
- nice personality but shit sex
- shit personality but awesome sex
- rich but none of those
- everything seems perfect but poor as fuck so I need to pay his bills
Relatively experienced – kinda woman tend to be more choosy, picky (it’s not scientifically proved) They want to find someone in their same or similar level, thus it becomes harder and harder to find right one. What happens when they find a ‘right one’? the ‘right one’ could mean everything to them, so it becomes too serious. Guys are allergic to serious shit. They born to be simple! this kind of relationship can’t last any longer!!!! how do I know this well?! From my experiences!!!!
Open your mind, look around world, the important thing is that you don’t look for someone to fulfil your flaws, your incompetence. It’s heaps easier to think that ‘relationship’ or ‘date’ is one of surprise event in your life. ENJOY!
People often assume me as ‘easy’ because I may seem date/fuck easy and always talk about pussy, dick, and sex. On the contrary, the woman who dated a lot, the woman who has more guy-experiences knows better what exactly they want. so they are skilled, or they knows well how to reject, or.. . say NOPE. I think I had mild version of arrhenophobia(?) before my working lady times. I maybe met guys to overcome this, I was so comfy when I was dating with someone or got involved some kind of relationship (썸). I felt like I’m safe!!! I’m in a conservation area!!!!
Other dicks are often easily forgotten or ignored when I was with a guy who at least I chose. The problem is, when I realise my be loved ‘chosen one’ is not much different from other dicks. In this way, relationship was the progress for better understanding about ‘male’ to accept (or comprehend) my ‘chosen one’. ??????????????? ????????????????????????????????????? ??????????????????? (someone please help to make this sentence to better shape)
Not so easy at first, It got better after I met few more guys. By repeating this I understand better about guys and it gives me such life confidence. ego stroke@ such ecstasy.
Humanbeing is the creature which desires admiration all the time. it’s such an addiction, like hi-high but dangerous at the same time. To be object of marble…. I am learning through many gashes. wanna be worshipped but all of sudden you can be a sacrifice but well, it’s too late when you realise it. You could get all the blames and complains that ask your responsibility of consquence. Because you are the one who encouraged them to admire you. how slutty? Look, easy and charming is paper thin, different.